Tuesday, April 07, 2009

Self-Improvement....

We usually come across people giving their valuable advices, but seldom follow what they say. By doing so the whole motive behind it changes and goes meaningless. It cannot be considered as a valuable advice. Acting on what we say is the best way to motivate ourselves. We are so happy to advice others that we occasionally do what we advice. It is more or less cheating our selves; this leads us to living a hypocritic life. Living a good life is to be honest with our self.

''If you want to change someone for the better, first change yourself. If you want to teach someone, first practice yourself. If you want to advise someone, first act on them. If you want to control someone first control yourself. If you want to help someone, first help yourself.''

3 comments:

  1. Anonymous3:17 AM

    Interesting,as the saying goes'practise before you preach'.

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  2. Sauda4:59 AM

    Yeah ...your right we first need to check ourselves!!!!!!

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  3. well i would appreciate an advice from anyone who really means well for me...i would not like to dwell on wheather the person advising is practising or not .. but nevertheless what you have written is absolutely true..

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